Can you be raped by your Master?

This is a controversial subject and I am respectful of all the thoughts on it but the best I can do is note this is just my personal opinion.

I do not think a slave if they have agreed to the anytime and anywhere sex, that most of us do, can be raped by our Master’s. I do believe a Master, as a human being, can be capable of being malicious and stupid and do something to us that make us feel violated and destroys trust.

If one gives over power in this area then one needs to understand that the Master has the right to use the power. If all your giving of power is conditional in that you want or have no problem in doing it at the time then you really have no power exchange relationship to begin with and have made it impossible for your owner to relax and be himself. At the same time if your owner does things that get this reaction to you, ignores safe words and has not learned your reactions of discomfort from truly being in trouble then you are just with a crappy dominant who is a crappy person. I would then suggest getting out of the crappy relationship.

Rape is a very powerful word and one must be careful how we present it. Giving over power is not something to give and then later go not so fast. Things must be communicated and agreed to. A bad experience that borders on a question like this might be very gray in the reality of it.