Why is there so much focus on the kink and sex when this life is talked about?

Three reasons!

1) The largest practitioners in this life are of the strict top/bottom variety. Therefore all they are interested in would be these aspects. Even many claiming deeper roots can be viewed through objective observation to be basically just traditional role type relationships with top/bottom fun stuff. Pretty much the no rules and rituals, no punishments and none of them wanting “micromanagement” so pretty much only leaves sex and kink.

2) These relationships are far more similar to regular relationships then different. “That is my point Lin. Are you that stupid because regular couples are not this sex obsessed?” My point being is our lives really do not differentiate greatly in a lot of those things. So when we get together to talk about these things you will either get writings of inspirations that come off as love letters to our others and other internalized feelings or you will get what one did that interest them enough and others who they are communicating with.

Domestic chores are not interesting to anyone for the most part and my Master, like most, does not really engage in active domination when it comes to the domestic stuff outside of what he would like to eat. Work is not power based and despite my Master’s ongoing and unsuccessful attempt to understand why I love with passion being a nurse while still coming home often from a shift in some combination of exhausted, frustrated, sad or pissed. Nothing power based there and my fellow nurses get those stories.

Does a person want to write or read about all the common reminders my Master and I gave each other before he left for his business trip or would we rather read about the savage throat fucking and cum facial I got as his goodbye? I tend to think the latter dominates ones thoughts and interests.

3) What part of giving power over to a man so he can indulge in his desires do you not get?

As I wrote in number two a lot of this is life as usual for most things. What power exchange often affects the most by far is private “we” time. No matter how much enjoyment cooking, cleaning and serving in the blander things in life can do for us in a good way most of us are doing these things regardless of power exchange and just not much to write about. For example for maybe most women with a man that has a healthy sexual appetite, which would be harder to get his approval? Buying a new vacuum cleaner because the commercial for the one that moves on a ball looks so much cooler then the one you have now or telling him you found some nice things you would like to wear for him out of the Victoria’s Secret Catalog?

When dealing in theory topics can be discussed in a broad form easily. When talking in details about what goes on in our lives the redundancy of life tends to be boring but the different and stuff we cannot share with others is why many communicate with others in this life in the first place. For many that will be not only sexual and kinky acts but the amp up sexualization of their relationship.