Why do I pick on dominants so much?

I do not pick on all dominants. Heck as a 24/7 slave I basically adore dominants in general. When I go negative on dominants I am not going negative on dominants that get it or are looking to get it from a slave’s point of view. The ones I am ripping are the ones who do not get it and/or are parading around calling themselves dominants but are really just selfish people looking for their ego to be stroked and be spoiled.

When I write a post that puts these dominants under the magnifying glass my motivation is not out of a dark place nor do I specifically think up things to write about base on how can I rip dominants today. As I wrote about my motivations of writing this blog here I will not go into too much detail but I very much have a main motivation to what and how I write my blog.

1) I am not on here to express how much I love my Master and the power exchange life like I am trying to convince myself or seek validation from others. It is just not in me to externalize my internal feelings. Rest assured I think my Master is very special and awesome just like any other person thinks of their other when one has great compatibility and love in their relationship.

2) I find much of the information floating around from web sites, blogs and message boards to be dominant centric and over simplistic. Whether directly and mostly indirectly there is a lot of information out there that is either wrong or so narrowly focused it does not capture the whole picture and distorts this great life. My personal interest when discussing this life is more broad and not about specific details but peeling back a layer and see what is really going on in our brains.

3) The way this life is discussed even from those who get it often portrays dominants as strong, wise and basically all knowing in all aspects of life and especially power exchange. At the same time submissives are also often portrayed as weak, naïve and relatively clueless about power exchange.

4) I am a 24/7 total power exchange slave. There are not a ton of us out there and we are wired different from many other types of submissives. Most information out there comes from lesser power exchange people and relationships. This is again especially true in how dominants write they will write like everything is direct experience but this is often not with a slave like me and I simply notice how often dominants who stick their feet into the water when writing 24/7 TPE how they smear, and often incorrectly, their actual knowledge into theory of what they think or wish.

Let me give you a typical example of what I encounter. Yesterday I went on a message board and some poor woman posted a question that she found her Master had posted an ad to have a discreet affair on a site designed for such things. Sorry this is not a power exchange issue at all. It is about a relationship going bad and a guy who did a crappy thing. So what did the majority of the dominants write? Pretty much putting everything back on this poor woman like “you are not much of a slave if you do not trust him”, “why were you looking in the first place” and “if you are a slave you should only be concerned about pleasing your Master not what he is doing”.

So when I think and write on topics my motivations more then likely come from these thoughts above. I always write in fairly strong tones because I do not understand any other way to write and find it sad or comical that because I am a slave I should write in a passive and weak way.

My goal in writing on the topics I do is for dominants or submissives whether experienced or starting out to read the words and see from one person what is going on after peeling back the specific things being done from a slave who has lived this successfully for well over a decade. I am not saying every 24/7 TPE slave is like me or should be like me and I do not write thinking that I may or may not be totally right. But all I can do is write from my experiences and my brain and let others read and take from it what they want.

My writing will often poke holes and expose dominants who do not get it because that is simply often who get my thoughts and attention when I read something and shake my head in disbelief.